Help please...

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-30-2009
Help please...
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Mon, 11-30-2009 - 6:00am
Hi- I'm hoping for some help.. I recently ended a relationship. I'm married- He's not. It didn't last long- only a few months. I did take a trip and visit him. He has family and friends in my town but lives out of state. Long story short- I have to stay in my marriage for now and asked AP to not text or call. He still texts every day and was recently in town for holiday and wanted to see me. When I told him I couldn't he repeatedly texted. I finally called him and all he did was argue with me about not seeing him. He then threatened to come to my home. He drove by my house several times. He's back home now and is still texting etc..
Any ideas on getting him to stop?
iVillage Member
Registered: 09-25-2006
In reply to: justjewely
Mon, 11-30-2009 - 9:11am

Hi JJ, welcome to EAS.


You want him to stop?

Onward and upward.
iVillage Member
Registered: 11-30-2009
In reply to: justjewely
Mon, 11-30-2009 - 8:08pm
Thank you so much for your reply. I will be blocking him from my phone. I'm afraid to block him from FB because I want to know if he posts anything about me. He's never called my home phone but I wouldn't put it past him since he threatened to come to my home. I feel so stupid getting involved in the first place.. What makes it worse is I still have feelings for him but they are dwindling quickly. There is NO hope for us to be together now that I know what he's really like. I feel like I'm dealing with a 12year old- and he's in his 40s.