HELP.............PLEASE CAN SOMEONE?

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-05-2003
HELP.............PLEASE CAN SOMEONE?
3
Mon, 11-15-2004 - 11:21am
RUN ME OVER WITH A CAR! I feel like contacting OM just to see how he is doing. I know its over between us and I have been so good and remain with NC but Im having a weak moment.

blue eyes or free where are you? I need some one to beat me with a NC stick........

I miss him so much now around the holidays.

SOUL
iVillage Member
Registered: 10-05-2004
Mon, 11-15-2004 - 11:55am
Soul -

I know it is hard. The holidays tend to bring out the romantic in us and we start to have those 'feelings' again. But know where to focus them - OM is not the answer. What will contacting him get you? What will you gain from it? Believe me, I still have to ask myself these questions everyday. And the answer is always the same - nothing.

Try doing something romantic for your H (if you are married - sorry, don't know much about your situation) or something fun for yourself, if you are not. It sounds cheesy, but sometimes it helps.

Diva

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-28-2003
Mon, 11-15-2004 - 10:26pm
Soul

Were am I working my butt off to pay for those Christmas gifts.

SQUARE ONE, that is what you will get if you contact him, you ge to go back to Square One and start all over again, SOUND LIKE FUN to you does it, NAH I didn't think so.

Now walk over to the nearest door frame and bang you head real hard on it if you enjoy pain enough to call him, that should satisfy your need.

Whack

Free

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-05-2003
Tue, 11-16-2004 - 10:52am
Thank you free, I needed that slap of reality. I just needed a remind of what i dont want any longer.

Soul