Here we go again! what is wrong with me

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Registered: 01-30-2009
Here we go again! what is wrong with me
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Fri, 03-12-2010 - 12:09pm
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Registered: 08-18-2008
Fri, 03-12-2010 - 12:39pm

Gal C,


I was looking through some of your old posts to try to better see why you are in the same position emotionally after being a year out.


It seems you have answered the questions you are asking today in a previous post:


Here are your comments and questions today:


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Whether you think you can or you think you can't you are probably right. A parrot can repeat what it has learned but the mark of true intelligence is applying what is learned.

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Registered: 08-02-2000
Fri, 03-12-2010 - 12:45pm
You let him back in again so that you could FINALLY learn your lesson about him. He sounds like a real flake, to be honest. A liar, a cheater and a flake. On the one hand, he's playing lovey dovey with his new gal, and on the other, he would probably hop right back into cheating with you. Gross. I say if you simply cannot continue to work with him and find some peace about it all, then you're just going to have to find another job. There's nothing you can do about him. You can only take action yourself. He's a loser...maybe if you could just get yourself to REALLY see that, you will feel nothing but aversion towards him, and then you could keep your job.
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Registered: 01-30-2009
Sat, 03-13-2010 - 12:08pm
hi ladies thank you so much for your replies and thank you so for much reminding me what I really thought of him! It really brought me back to reality here. I kind of forgot how cruel he could be. You are dead right I shouldn't be making this about him or wondering why he is acting the way he is. Its about me and why I am acting the way I am. I wish I could figure this one out I really do. I have been to T for months and I yet I still find myself drawn towards him. It has to be just attention craving on my part. We have this strange kind of s*xual chemistry between us that i have never felt with anyone one else and for some reason that alone keeps me attracted to him. Wish I could get rid of that chemistry.
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Registered: 02-18-2010
Sat, 03-13-2010 - 12:56pm

Hi Gal,


I agree with the other ladies regarding your XAP.

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Registered: 01-30-2009
Sat, 03-13-2010 - 1:02pm
hey runningirl. You are right about him he is very much into head games. Its constant head games all the time! One minute hes nice the next hes ignoring me. One minute hes all flirty the next hes cold.