Here.....if needed

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Here.....if needed
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Wed, 11-24-2010 - 11:22pm

I realize that many of us will be joining fam and friends tomorrow....and I know that sadness fills the air around this season. I will be round the boards should someone need a listening ear, a snap back into reality or a good ole fashioned serving of my tough luvin...I will let you whine....but only for about 5 mins. Then I shall smother you with gravy and force feed you some of my collard greens and candied yams. I am in B-lo with my mom and may need the board to distract me from her madness....lol. She has been pretty great thus far. The kids and I have really enjoyed the trip. Keep your fingers crossed for me. I have so much to be thankful for, despite some hard times as of late.

So instead of thinking of your exAp and what they may or may not be doing, take a moment to think about what you really are thankful for. Could be your H, your health, your kids, the roof over your head....exAp's are like small red ants compared to these things if you take a moment to think about it.


WARNING....our mother hen Iddy wont let ya wine for too long no way, I got my hands slapped last Christmas...so keep it about you and your healing...I will have open ears....if you must whine or need, really need, a good cry, private message me....otherwise, one persons cry turns into a snowball effect...n then I am crying too...lol! I just do not want anyone to think they are all alone and that the board is dead should they need some support...or just a nudge. Great thing about EAS, we never close, ever. not even on Holidays! Hope everyone has a great one!

Luvin
Yo Soy EL Capitan de Mi Vida

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Registered: 04-20-2009
Wed, 11-24-2010 - 11:32pm

Ah, Luvin!

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Registered: 08-25-2010
Wed, 11-24-2010 - 11:34pm

Luvin You have no idea how much this means to me.

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Registered: 03-29-2009
Wed, 11-24-2010 - 11:51pm

there she is again...the light in the window, hand on her hip, wooden spoon in the other hand. sayin' "chile, get IN here, RIGHT now and sit down i got somethin' to tell you and don't you sass me back!."

what we do without (old tough) Luvin?

silence is eloquent, silence is dignified, silence is heard. ...
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Registered: 04-20-2009
Wed, 11-24-2010 - 11:56pm

Lil-

I saw in another post that you said your Gma used to say, "f em if they can't take a joke".

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Registered: 03-29-2009
Wed, 11-24-2010 - 11:58pm

dyin' here, dee.

silence is eloquent, silence is dignified, silence is heard. ...
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Registered: 01-18-2010
Thu, 11-25-2010 - 12:08am

Lolly,

My collards are off the chain...that's slang for really good. I mix em with Turnip and Mustard, put in a smoked turkey bone and some other secret stuff and people eat em up. Even kids who normally do not like veggies.

Luvin
Yo Soy EL Capitan de Mi Vida
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Registered: 01-18-2010
Thu, 11-25-2010 - 12:12am

Dee,

You are hilarious....lol....I needed that chuckle.

Luvin
Yo Soy EL Capitan de Mi Vida
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Registered: 09-28-2010
Thu, 11-25-2010 - 9:31am
Hello,

I will be around too - hanging with Luvin eatin collard greens (i've never had) ... we are past our Thanksgiving here as I am a Northern Neighbor.

Grateful & giving thanks for my EAS family nonetheless. I am starting to feel some of the heavy that comes with the holidays, but I am DEE-TERMINED that THIS year there will only be tears of healing old hurts, and NOT the creation of ANY MORE.

I'm going to start it all off by going RIGHT NOW to buy & hang holiday lights for the first time ever.

TU.
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Registered: 10-17-2010
Thu, 11-25-2010 - 9:49am

Thank you once again Luvin for being so caring and supportive!

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Registered: 07-17-2004
Thu, 11-25-2010 - 10:17am
Happy Thanksgiving Luvin, have a fantastic day. I love your posts and all the support you give. Everyone on this board is amazing;)

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