He's Calling Again...ugh

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-15-2003
He's Calling Again...ugh
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Tue, 11-10-2009 - 1:14pm

yup i heard from him yesterday 2 times, he had to call me back bc his daughter needed the phone.

~k
iVillage Member
Registered: 08-18-2008
Tue, 11-10-2009 - 2:51pm

Hi iluv,


I hear your desire to want to end this but no amount of wanting will change things. You must take affective action to facilitate change.


I know you feel that your situation is special since he has had health problems and your sympathy for him is making it difficult to cut ties.


If you continue to talk to him, an EA is continuing.

Whether you think you can or you think you can't you are probably right. A parrot can repeat what it has learned but the mark of true intelligence is applying what is learned.

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-15-2003
Wed, 11-11-2009 - 2:35pm

thank you E1.


i wasnt quite sure where i belonged...

~k
iVillage Member
Registered: 08-18-2008
Thu, 11-12-2009 - 11:23am

Hi iluv,


I asked in an earlier post…Who is John? (The one that is part of your screen name.)


You said: <<why cant it just be on a friend basis?>>


Can an alcoholic be friends with a bottle of Grey Goose? He/She won’t open the bottle. They just have to be strong.


Can a coke addict be just friends with and 8-ball?

Whether you think you can or you think you can't you are probably right. A parrot can repeat what it has learned but the mark of true intelligence is applying what is learned.