iVillage Member
Registered: 09-16-2010
Mon, 07-15-2013 - 11:09am

<p>Hi..not sure if this will make it or if anybody is out there. &nbsp;I've been here before as well as mas and I know not many are around anymore. &nbsp;Are there any recent endings I can connect with to help each other through? &nbsp;Ibe been through this before and have always went back. &nbsp;I think I'm trying to realize this is finally what needs to be done how painfully empty and devastated I feel. &nbsp;I can't breath one minute and think its the end of the world (my world), then I realize I will get through this, only to go back to sobbing asking god to help me...</p><p>anybody out there??...</p>

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Community Leader
Registered: 11-04-2012
In reply to: tdalways
Mon, 07-15-2013 - 10:34pm

I'm here!  I was here earlier too, and didn't see your post posted 11 hours ago. Seems you understand how things work on ivillage these days ;)

You will get through this!  You apparently know what you need to do and coming here for support was really smart and a good first step.

So, why don't you tell us more about your situation.  It helps to lay it all out...it's like a good cleansing...and, it helps us figure out how we can best support you.

I'll keep coming by to try to catch you.



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iVillage Member
Registered: 01-11-2013
In reply to: tamcoll
Tue, 07-16-2013 - 12:45am

Hang in there. It will gets better with time. It just doesn't happen as quickly as we would like.

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Community Leader
Registered: 01-25-2010
In reply to: tdalways
Wed, 07-17-2013 - 5:56pm

Deatils dear.  We cannot understand your feelings if we have not idea of what is going on.