Hi, Everyone.

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Registered: 04-20-2009
Hi, Everyone.
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Fri, 12-17-2010 - 4:00pm

Man!

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Registered: 05-15-2010
In reply to: deeulta
Fri, 12-17-2010 - 4:14pm

Hi Dee,

We have missed you!

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Registered: 11-22-2009
In reply to: deeulta
Fri, 12-17-2010 - 6:31pm

Happy to read you're still with us.

Be where you are; otherwise you will miss your life. ~ Buddha
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Registered: 07-21-2009
In reply to: deeulta
Fri, 12-17-2010 - 6:35pm

I missed you!

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Registered: 10-17-2010
In reply to: deeulta
Fri, 12-17-2010 - 7:35pm

Dee you sure were missed and I luv ya!!!

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Registered: 09-28-2010
In reply to: deeulta
Sat, 12-18-2010 - 3:39pm
Dee! You are incredible, and I am sure I speak for everyone when I say no one gets me laughing like you do! I loved your post ... and can relate to the infrequent, but occasional, visits from the 'blues'. They seem to wash over me before I can catch my breath. Then, I have this moment of sheer exhaustion. THEN, as quickly as it comes, I catch my breath again and remind myself that I am okay. It's all going to be okay. Yup - time for a mental readjustment and forward focused eye-balls. Every once and a while my little mind tempts me to just take a peak over my shoulder, you know ... just to be sure that the wreckage was as bad as I thought. Yes - yes it was. So, onward we travel. Here in our real life we are where our mothers drive us crazy, the kids drive us nuts, there is more work to do than time in the day, and where the problems only get worse the longer we avoid them. Ahhhh, real life.

Thank goodness for coping skills - life was a lot more terrifying this time last year!

HUGS,

TU.
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Registered: 04-01-2010
In reply to: deeulta
Sat, 12-18-2010 - 4:44pm

((((Dee))))

Missed you, girl. I am so happy that RL has taken over your

Oct. 12, 2010 -- began my personal search and rescue mission.
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Registered: 10-16-2010
In reply to: deeulta
Sat, 12-18-2010 - 8:15pm

Dee so nice to hear from you!

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Registered: 11-16-2010
In reply to: deeulta
Sun, 12-19-2010 - 1:26am
Welcome Back Dee,

I feel the same way MC does, hearing that vets still think about their EAPs makes me feel a little sad, the pain doesn't completely go away does it? I'm grateful that you are keeping it real for us newbies, I too want to be here next year with MC.

V888
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Registered: 06-17-2010
In reply to: deeulta
Sun, 12-19-2010 - 7:53am

Dee-

Don't you wish the world had a pause button? You post has a good lesson - life doesn't stop and what is most important after ending an A, is working on the real problem. Our xaps will always be a part of our past - unless we have the Haitian Mind Eraser dude from Heroes do his thing. As we go through life we have to constantly to a mental check on our motivations and our actions. Keeping your mind in the present is key - creating a better future by what you do right now. Karma :)

I remember when I made it to Tweenerville, I was actually very down for a few days after. It's as if I thought something magical was going to happen to completely eradicate xap from my life - ha! I still think of him, but newbies, like Dee said, the issues do become mundane. Heck, I still think about my high school boyfriend from time to time and don't feel like jumping off a bridge like I did in 11th grade when he broke up with me! :)

Bodhi

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Registered: 07-24-2005
In reply to: deeulta
Sun, 12-19-2010 - 4:32pm

How about just a ((((((((((HUG)))))))))) from the most obnoxious poster here.