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|Sun, 09-09-2012 - 9:58am|
Remember, we never just find ourselves in an affair....we invited it into our lives...due to lack of boundaries and vibes we put out.
That is a quote from a post made earlier by our leader Clarity, and it just jumped out at me, and stopped me in my tracks. Many times while reading a post it just jumps out at me and makes me stop and think. Sometimes simple things, other times deep stuff. Sometimes the thought lasts more than a few seconds and I keep going back to it all day, like an earworm. Aaagggggghhh!!!!
I think we all know that feeling that she is speaking of. I know I did. It was the fantasy moving into reality when it happened. I know the first second it happened, and I knew where it was heading.
I can compare all this to learning the game of golf. There are so many things to remember if you are going to do it well. Just learning to swing the club can be so complicated.
In life, in our marriages or relationships we need to remember all the subtleties of Boundaries, Our Behavior, Our Signals, Our Commitment, Our Deficiencies, Our Desires, Our Needs.
We make ourselves. We make the relationships that we have. We are to blame in those failures too. We must accept responsibility, good or bad.
Anyways, thanks Clarity for making me think today.
I'm off to enjoy the day.............FORE!!!