Is on hold different than the end?
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Is on hold different than the end?
| Mon, 05-03-2004 - 3:09pm |
Has anyone here ever been put on hold? It is a terrible feeling. Waiting for Wife to leave when kids are out of school. Or I think I am. Help.

xxx trouble,
I believe there is a difference. If it's over it would have been flat out said that it is, aside from the pain, you would know where you stand. Being put on hold is giving the person the impression if you are patient, you will be rewarded. Know what I mean?
When I broke if off with MM I never said the actual words that it was a break -up (and I believe I did that intentionally, although at the time I didn't think of that)because he never wanted it over. I chose NC which included no emails, no phone calls, no physical contact, but I never said the actual words that I am breaking up with you.
I think thats because I was hoping to hear that he made his final decision to leave his and I wanted to be available.
I wish he would have said that it's over because I didn't have the heart nor the courage to do it. I am writing another post on my latest update and I would love to hear from everyone and what they're opinion is. I hope I have helped a little and I hope I made sense.
MidnightBlue