How are all my fellow D-Day peeps? Can you give us an update?
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How are all my fellow D-Day peeps? Can you give us an update?
| Fri, 02-11-2011 - 1:57pm |
I was thinking about all of you while on vacation.

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Hi Heart,
I don't know if you were referringto recent D-day peeps or not. I had a D-day in june 2009 and would be happy to share my story if anyone is interested. I would be really interested in hearing others as well. I expect to be free for a good time tomorrow so hopefully people post. Thanks.
Amexdm
Hi Heart
i have been meaning to give an update but things have been changing day by day.. the minute i get slightly confident that things will be ok they crash
New Choices, New Chapter,
New Challenges,
Welcome home Heart... I hope you had a great vacation!
My Dday was in Dec, right before
AMex- I would like to hear more about your D-Day story.
NC- My girl-
the minute i get slightly confident that things will be ok they crash
FL-
Ok, wow.
New Choices, New Chapter,
New Challenges,
H A,
My D-day was June 2009. The first 3 months were hell. My W called me and xap every name in the book. I stood there like a man and took it. I deserved it. I had cheated on her. I still kept in contact with ap for support as well if my M ended I would have been single right. At about the 4-5 month point I got tired of the verbal outburts. I told my wife I was sorry for my A. That I was wrong. That if she could not forgive me I would understand. But that I would not continue to be her punching bag day in and day out. It wasn't healthy for either of us. At about the 6 month spot she started to forgive. It was slow but ti finally came around. 20 months later we are back in a good place. I have initiated NC with AP. I never had PA after D-day. But yes as always it is hard to let go. I am moving on to a better place.
Feeling,
It has been 20 months since my D-day. If yours was in December, you are fairly early in the process. When my Dad died, my T told me it takes most people 6 months to grieve over a loss. The first 4 months after D-day was hell for me. She beat me up nearly every day.
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