How did you know..

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-15-2009
How did you know..
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Sat, 08-22-2009 - 5:01pm
what to do? Stay or go? What made your decision final?

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iVillage Member
Registered: 06-09-2008
Sat, 08-22-2009 - 5:10pm

Hi Somebody,


I wanted to post to let you know that there was a thread here recently started by someone just like yourself.

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-15-2009
Sat, 08-22-2009 - 6:54pm

Thank you. I'm not married but I am in a long term relationship. Things have been down lately and I'm just trying to figure out where things went wrong and what to do.

Thank you.

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-03-2008
Sun, 08-23-2009 - 10:28am

So it sounds like you're single

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-08-2009
Sun, 08-23-2009 - 12:09pm
have you tried communicating with him about how you are feeling? sometimes with an EMR, as you know, there are peaks, and then lows.

MoonUnit

MoonUnit

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-08-2009
Sun, 08-23-2009 - 12:19pm
" Affairs don't and can't last forever". if you want to go that route, nothing lasts forever. a lot of marriages fall apart after 5 to 10 years.

MoonUnit

MoonUnit

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-21-2008
Sun, 08-23-2009 - 12:57pm

I totally and wholeheartedly agree with you moonunit....a lot of folks on here constantly compare the downside of the affair to the upside of a "true" committed realtionship....which if you are even lucky to find that doesn't last either. ALL relationships lose their luster in time...whether it is an affair...or a living together arrangement.

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-03-2008
Sun, 08-23-2009 - 1:12pm

" Affairs don't and can't last forever". if you want to go that route, nothing lasts forever. a lot of marriages fall apart after 5 to 10 years."


Very true - that's why I said if the OP is satisfied with the status quo, then stay.

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-11-2009
Sun, 08-23-2009 - 2:00pm

Only you can decide when you've had enough, when you're no longer happy with things as they are.

 

              &n

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-21-2008
Sun, 08-23-2009 - 2:34pm
What is an EMP?
iVillage Member
Registered: 08-08-2009
Sun, 08-23-2009 - 2:38pm
extra marital person

MoonUnit

MoonUnit

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