how differently do people behave in affairs?
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how differently do people behave in affairs?
| Wed, 05-25-2011 - 12:47pm |
From your experience, how different were you and xAP in your affairs? In other words, were you a completely different person in it? I know the common wisdom - we all put on our best face, freshly showered, best behavior etc. but this is hard to keep up and usually people's "real" selves come out. For instance, someone who is sarcastic will end up being sarcastic within the affair. Someone who is needy or judgemental or constantly complaining etc ... well you get the picture.
So did you behave very differently over a prolonged time? And if you know your xAP from a previous "normal" setting, did s/he behave differently also?

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Why do you ask?
Dee
I think the opportunity to bust out of our roles and re-invent ourselves
I know I behaved differently in my A than I did at home, but I have to tell you I think it was just the opposite of what you are thinking.
At home, I had been rejected and hurt so much that I was not myself at home.
To JUF....absolutey behaved differently.
Absolutely.
I'm not sure if I would say 'behaved better' because we are totally misbehaving no matter how much we attempted to behave better to keep someone's interest.
JUF,
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