How do I gain control of myself?
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How do I gain control of myself?
| Mon, 09-28-2009 - 10:05pm |
12 hours or more away and I'm strong, confident and self-assured... but one
| Mon, 09-28-2009 - 10:05pm |
12 hours or more away and I'm strong, confident and self-assured... but one
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How do you gain control of yourself?
Go look in the mirror. And look real hard at yourself. Do you see a woman who is cheating on herself, her husband, her family? Or do you see
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Happy Birthday !!
Give yourself to best gift ever - end the affair before it destroys you ss.
Just tell him "no more", you cannot do this anymore, business only. And mean it.
SS,
I am an senior HR professional and you need to hear this.
Thanks Bandk!
Hi SS, welcome to EAS. Congratulations on being determined to end the madness. You H deserves 100% of your attention.
What you need to do right now is what I call 'save you from yourself' so you can have all the chances on your side to break the addiction. You already know you're heavily addicted to this man.
You have a Blackberry. Did you know that you can block texts and PINS on your unit without calling the phone company or your IT person. Do it, now. He won't know that he's blocked, the messages just go out in the cyberspace graveyard.
On your personal Email you can easily create a filter so his emails go directly to the trash.
As for your work email... you're going to have to bury your Blackberry in the bottom of your purse and sit on your hands so that you don't look at work email off-hours. It's tough at first, but you can do it. And you will be surprised how good it feels to be off the roller coaster!!
PLEASE put yourself first. You are not his plaything to meet his needs. You are not his side-dish of cake. You are you and you belong to your husband, not to him. He needs to grow a conscience and not disturb your peace anymore.
big hugs,
trixie xo
"Life is not about waiting for the storm to pass, it is about learning to dance in the rain.”
Thanks for you post Sara.
I'm always wondering what to tell EASers in similar situations when they have LC due to work.
It's a slippery slope and I empathize with them not wanting to rock the boat but I also see that sometimes they use it as an
Whether you think you can or you think you can't you are probably right. A parrot can repeat what it has learned but the mark of true intelligence is applying what is learned.
Hey there Start -
Just wanted to say that you have received some really great advice from the ladies here (as expected :) )
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