How do you improve your M w/out D-Day?

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Registered: 10-04-2009
How do you improve your M w/out D-Day?
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Fri, 10-16-2009 - 9:57am

This question is for you ladies out there who are working to improve their M, but they didn't have

NC since October 2, 2009.

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Registered: 08-06-2007
Fri, 10-16-2009 - 11:02am

Tia, I can think of so many ways improve a marriage, but ultimately I think it boils down to understanding ourselves, how we see things, how we act and react and how much or how little we do to make changes in ourselves regarding

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-14-2009
Fri, 10-16-2009 - 11:08am
Why don't you try making him feel the way you made your xAP feel. Say (and do) the things you did with your xAP. I also was lucky enough to avoid a DD. And this is how I am trying to make my wife feel. She's a happy woman.
"You Cant Lose What You Never Had" ---

Muddy Waters
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Registered: 04-07-2009
Fri, 10-16-2009 - 11:19am

Good morning


Just wanted to say congrats on 2 weeks.

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-06-2007
Fri, 10-16-2009 - 11:19am

ddab,


Great point. Put the same energies into your marriage as you did your affair.


And ddab, I'm still smiling about your "sex in a minivan" comment :-)

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Registered: 07-28-2009
Fri, 10-16-2009 - 3:16pm
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