How do you know - love or addiction?!
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How do you know - love or addiction?!
| Fri, 02-27-2004 - 8:02am |
I've been NC for only 1 day now, and it's driving me crazy. I made the decision so I could give my marriage a real try. But, I really felt like I was in love with the OM, and he wants to marry me. All of the books, therapists, etc. say that I am just going through withdraw, and it was not love, but an addiction. Honestly, what's the difference? Don't they both create the same kinds of emotions? How can you tell one from the other? How do you know if what you had was real?
It certainly felt real for us, and being apart is killing me. How do I know if I'm giving up my chance for true happiness?

Hang in there ist123 and as every one tells me, "only time will tell" as hard as it is to wait...
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