How do you move on?
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How do you move on?
| Mon, 01-25-2010 - 6:26pm |
The affair was short, just three months, and the physical side of things was very limited (no S, but defninely other things).
| Mon, 01-25-2010 - 6:26pm |
The affair was short, just three months, and the physical side of things was very limited (no S, but defninely other things).
Honey, you move on by taking it one day at a time and not looking any further than that right now. As you go through your day, try to come here as much as you can and read, read, read. Have you been to the Healing Library yet? There is a thread there for maintaining limited contact called, "How to maintain LC at the workplace," and although it was constructed for AP's that work together, there are some excellent suggestions on how to set boundaries and "fake it till you make it," for those of you who are neighbors, family friends, etc.
Try not to worry about the "friend" thing right now because he will probably not want that happening anyway, especially if his W knows about the affair. She will be watching him like a hawk, and this will work in your favor, even though right now it hurts like the dickens.
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~Iddy~
Hey, ajayceegirl~
Well, I'm the President of the
Hi Ajay,
Welcome to EAS.
It is hard to be on the receiving end of NC.
You wrote: << I'm just not happy with HOW it ended... by just ignoring me like this, no mutual agreement, nothing, as if I was supposed to just be okay with it.>>
Whether you think you can or you think you can't you are probably right. A parrot can repeat what it has learned but the mark of true intelligence is applying what is learned.