HOW DO YOU MOVE ON????
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| Thu, 03-10-2005 - 4:01am |
Hey Everyone,
Thank you all for your support.
Things have not changed i have been in contact with XMM all week.
I really dont know what to do anymore.
How do i get the upper hand?
I know i have to muster up the strength to end this once and for all but im afraid i will not have the courage to do so.
Yesterday he told me again that he loves me so much and that he thinks of me all the time, he said when we are talking he is making love to me.
God i just dont know anymore. I have spoke to him again about cutting contact and he said he will do whatever i want to do, he understands.
Today i feel ok. I dont feel i have to ring him but yesterday and Monday i craved contact with him all day long.
I give him so much power over me, i just want to be strong enough to let go and move on but how do you do that?
How do you let go and move on?
Thanks Guys,
Kerry.

"Yesterday he told me again that he loves me so much and that he thinks of me all the time, he said when we are talking he is making love to me."
Manipulation is the best word to discribe this.
"God i just dont know anymore. I have spoke to him again about cutting contact and he said he will do whatever i want to do, he understands"
The above manipulation puts the LIE to this statement.
In my VIEW your only option to end this before payment is due it to ENFORCE TOTAL NO CONTACT by YOU, because he will do everything in his power to keep you on the hook with his B/S.
Your right your the one giving him the power here and your the one along with your family that will have to pay the PRICE...how big a price is to much to get your EGO stroked.
JMHO
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