How to end A when it's bf's dh??
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How to end A when it's bf's dh??
| Wed, 05-12-2004 - 4:00pm |
I have been having an A with my best friend's H for the last 3 months. He is also my H's best friend. MM and I decided last Thursday that we would end the A. After 2 days of being miserable, we agreed that the cold Turkey approach was just way too hard for us to take. We were both miserable and trying to hide that misery from our spouses. We don't want them to know, don't want to ruin our marriages, ruin the friendships we have established. We thought we could try a "measured withdrawal" approach to this. No contact doesn't seem like it is possible as we do things together with them as couples all the time, including vacations. So, our plan is to decrease "affair" type contact with each other over time.
Has anyone been in a similar situation with a positive ending?? We both want our current spouses and marriages to last, but don't want to lose our friendships as well.
Gigi

I really needed you to add to them.
Thanks so much!