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How is everyone doing today??? How are you feeling?
| Thu, 11-18-2010 - 9:23am |
Today, I feel pretty good.
| Thu, 11-18-2010 - 9:23am |
Today, I feel pretty good.
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I'm slammed with RL but in a really good way.
Good to hear your feeling good today:) It really does take one day at a time doesn't it? There are good days and then days in there that are not the best. Have you found those not so good days are getting easier to get through? I didn't have the best day yesterday but somehow it was easier! It is great to hear you putting your pieces together, TU responded to a post yesterday with questions Clarity asked a poster I'm going to print those questions off and do some soul searching, it is good to get our feelings out no matter what we are feeling and own them too:)
I understand your anger because at times I too have felt that way.
Hi Renewal :)
Feeling content today :) Sitting at Starbucks - needed a change of scenery to spur some creativity this morning. It's a chilly, overcast Illinois fall day and I'm loving every minute of it.
Bodhi
ALERT! This is kind of a downer so please don't read if it may ruin your good day. I don't want to bring anyone down, but I do want to be able to express my feelings as they come and go.
Dear Always,
I have asked myself the same question - for years, even before my affair. I find myself relating to your post - to your disgust, regret and confusion. I am working hard to see what was driving me to self-destruction. All the things you've listed - they are external to you and that's why they can't give you the comfort and care that you're hungry for. All those amazing things you've listed - they're important, but they are window dressings on a life - they are not YOU. Think of them as accessories ... but they are not the clothing.
This is what I have realized through this painful journey. I have lots on the outside many would die to have ... including a world class fully funded education, super fantastic & HEALTHY children, loving family & friends on and on and on ... but the happiness will come from the work I do on the inside. The hurts only I alone can heal. That makes me feel good though - knowing I am responsible for my own healing. That I don't need to depend on anyone else to do that healing. I can make the choices to heal or not, but that's MY choice to make.
Your focus is on you ... NOT only exAP. That's a good thing.
* Alice ... SNAP BACK TO REALITY. Why are you thinking that he owes you an apology?! His leaving you alone is good enough. Remember, you've harmed your loved ones and your focus needs to be on making repairs within YOURSELF so that you can DEMONSTRATE through actions that YOU ARE TRULY SORRY to YOUR H and YOUR FAMILY.
Talk is cheap. Who the heck cares if they ever said sorry or not, we shouldn't have been with them. They owed us NOTHING. I owed him NOTHING and what I could have provided I didn't. I SHOULD HAVE turned him away and sent him home. I SHOULD HAVE enforced boundaries and NOT HAVE ALLOWED MYSELF to get into a situation with another woman's husband. WE ARE RESPONSIBLE FOR ALL THIS HURT ... NOT xAPs.
TU.
* oh, so how am i feeling? a little defeated (but I won't give up) sad for the pain on this board and in my life. Scared - really scared about our finances ... 'tis the season. And like Luvin, I sure could use a hug and a good freaking cry. i wish I could just "go off the rails" but too many little ones eyeballs to keep me on track. So grateful for that - they perpetually save my life and don't even know it.
Yo Soy EL Capitan de Mi Vida
I REALLY enjoy this question!
To encompass our WHOLE SELVES here - is why days like today - even though it has NOTHING to do w/ a...I CHECK IN.
Hi everyone,
Im having a bad day.
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