How it ended, AP's reaction?
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|Fri, 08-17-2012 - 6:08pm|
Just curious if my AP's reaction is normal to my ending the A. He's not handling it well at all, and I know all the arguments for it, but in my case I feel complete NC is impossible, so I know how much pain xAP is in, because he is telling me via email. I still love him and maybe always will, but the A was also making me sick, crazy, and I recommited myself to make my M work or if I can't leave on my own terms for ME and not because of some other relationship/outside influence.
So, questions for you:
- Who ended it and why (the biggest reason(s))?
- Did you want the relationship to end?
- Do you think you genuinely loved AP? If yes, do you still?
- How did your AP react if you ended it? How did you react if AP ended it?
- How soon did fishing attempts stop (from AP or you after the A ended)?