How to let go??
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How to let go??
| Sat, 06-18-2005 - 12:38pm |
Hello everyone!! This is my 1st time posting but I have been reading everything for a while. I am married w/ 2 awesome girls ages 2 & 6 and a not so bad DH. My story is not unlike most of yours, I got involved w/ a co-worker this past January, started off as friends then came the flirting then we found ourselves falling in love. His wife is pregnant due in about 2 wks and I found out I was pregnant also in Feb. I wasn't 100% sure that the baby was for my dh and I really felt like it was for mm. Well at the end of march I ended up having a miscarraige which was hard but I can see now that it was for the best. I have no idea how I would have handled it in Oct when the baby came and it would have been for mm.
We had endend things at the end of april and I was OK w/ it, it sucked but I was OK. WE attended a training in May and got to leave early and found ourselves together once again. We are now trying to end it again and its hard. I do love him and he says he loves me but I know there is no future for us.
I know I am just rambling but I look foward to the day when my thoughts aren't about him. Thanks for listening and I wish each of you the best.
Lucy
We had endend things at the end of april and I was OK w/ it, it sucked but I was OK. WE attended a training in May and got to leave early and found ourselves together once again. We are now trying to end it again and its hard. I do love him and he says he loves me but I know there is no future for us.
I know I am just rambling but I look foward to the day when my thoughts aren't about him. Thanks for listening and I wish each of you the best.
Lucy

lucy,
nothing good will come of this, he know it and u know it, its a temporary solution to a problem, u are treating the symptoms and going right straight to the source of the problem
run away from this man, it will only cause u and the people u love so much pain in the end, i speak from experience, have u not read most of the post here, they are full of pain, stop and look inside your heart if u realy want this in your life
find another job, do whatever it take, it is not worth it, i am not trying to be harsh, just truthful
welcome to the board,
max