how many times did it take you?

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Registered: 03-08-2009
how many times did it take you?
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Wed, 10-27-2010 - 10:53am

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Registered: 04-01-2010
Wed, 10-27-2010 - 11:00am

This is my third and final time. If you *mean* it, Alice, it will feel different. Not dramatic. Just different.

Be done with it, Alice. Please. Before something really bad happens.

~alwayst2

Oct. 12, 2010 -- began my personal search and rescue mission.
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Wed, 10-27-2010 - 11:03am
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Wed, 10-27-2010 - 11:07am
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Wed, 10-27-2010 - 11:18am
Sweetie, you have just turned it around to be about him again. Do you see that? I think the rubber band therapy may be good for you. I am saying this all out of concern, Alice. It take work and time. We all have our own pace. But you need to be ACTIVE in working on it. You can't just suck it up. That's not really fixing the problem, which is inside you.

Dang, I really need to get back to work, but I will email you later. Super Duper Big Hug to you, Alice. I have faith in you.

~alwayst2
Oct. 12, 2010 -- began my personal search and rescue mission.
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Registered: 10-20-2009
Wed, 10-27-2010 - 12:11pm

Alice, it took me three times.

BE the change that you want to see in the world! Life loves me and I love life! <3
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Registered: 06-17-2010
Wed, 10-27-2010 - 12:33pm

Hmmmmmm.... probably 50 times in 7.5 years? Maybe more? Who's counting - the only ending that matters is the one that sticks :)

Bodhi

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Registered: 07-17-2004
Wed, 10-27-2010 - 2:18pm
Hi Alice,

This. is my third time with no contact as well. What everyone has said though makes alot of sense, it isn't the amount of times it's that we are done and there isn't any going back, there is only going forward and learning so that we do not repeat our past. :)
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Registered: 10-14-2010
Wed, 10-27-2010 - 2:22pm

Hahahh! Yes! Bodhi!

Im of the 50 times, Ilk....in 3 years; Maybe MORE.....

But it's VERY true, what you say, that the ONE that STICKS is the ONE THAT COUNTS!!!

:)

Your vision will become clear only when you look into your heart... Who looks outside, dreams. Who looks inside, awakens. I started looking inside and went NC October 15, 2010
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Registered: 08-06-2007
Wed, 10-27-2010 - 4:36pm

3

But the first 2 times were attempts to remain friends with LC. The 3rd time was an honest to goodness Adios Amigo on my behalf.

When you've had enough - you know.

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Registered: 12-31-2009
Wed, 10-27-2010 - 4:56pm

Same here. Third time was the charm.

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