how many times did it take you?

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how many times did it take you?
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Wed, 10-27-2010 - 10:53am

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Registered: 09-28-2010
Wed, 10-27-2010 - 5:29pm

Alice,

Your healing will depend on WHAT YOU HAVE DECIDED. NOT on what others have been able to accomplish when. Once you know you are done. a calm washes over you. You "are" in a different place. There isn't the self-torture that comes from waiting and wishing that he'll fish. Your focus is only on you and your healing. He becomes irrelevant. Time to start thinking different thoughts Alice. The only thing that is different about this time is that it is #3 attempt and not #2. What is going to prevent you from it being #4? NOT FOCUSING ON HIM AND GIVING YOUR POWER AWAY.

TU.

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Registered: 10-14-2010
Wed, 10-27-2010 - 5:38pm

I cannot AGREE MORE - about

Your vision will become clear only when you look into your heart... Who looks outside, dreams. Who looks inside, awakens. I started looking inside and went NC October 15, 2010
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Registered: 10-19-2010
Wed, 10-27-2010 - 5:59pm

Alice,

I loved reading this....finally a truly authentic 'I' statement

"I wanna not feel like a failure who cannot achieve this goal..." now read it again

"I wanna not feel like a failure who cannot achieve this goal..."

say it over and over to yourself....a

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Registered: 10-16-2010
Wed, 10-27-2010 - 6:27pm

breaking up with NC for an extended length of time, meaning more than 90 days NC?

at least eight or nine times over a ten year period

the last one (NC) lasted nine months and "almost worked"

this time i am 18

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Registered: 09-28-2010
Wed, 10-27-2010 - 10:07pm

foggy, you're amazing.

so glad you're "here"

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Thu, 10-28-2010 - 7:00am
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Registered: 06-17-2010
Thu, 10-28-2010 - 7:09am

<<>>

Yes! Shut it! Bolt it! And think of EAS as those security bars you see on windows. Then put that plastic stuff up and seal it tight to keep yourself nice and warm and turn the focus on you. :) :)

Bodhi

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Registered: 08-10-2010
Thu, 10-28-2010 - 10:21am

It took xAP and I about 20 to 30

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Registered: 10-20-2009
Thu, 10-28-2010 - 10:39am
Real life is yanking my chain today, but Alice I wanted to say to you if I didn't want you to make it I wouldn't be pushing you as hard as I do. I will continue to support and push you. That is how much I want it for you. It is soooo good here! I really and truly with all my heart want you to live the real life that was meant for you...Happy Day N_S
BE the change that you want to see in the world! Life loves me and I love life! <3
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Fri, 10-29-2010 - 6:28am

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