Your healing will depend on WHAT YOU HAVE DECIDED. NOT on what others have been able to accomplish when. Once you know you are done. a calm washes over you. You "are" in a different place. There isn't the self-torture that comes from waiting and wishing that he'll fish. Your focus is only on you and your healing. He becomes irrelevant. Time to start thinking different thoughts Alice. The only thing that is different about this time is that it is #3 attempt and not #2. What is going to prevent you from it being #4? NOT FOCUSING ON HIM AND GIVING YOUR POWER AWAY.
Your vision will become clear only when you look into your heart... Who looks outside, dreams. Who looks inside, awakens. I started looking inside and went NC October 15, 2010
Yes! Shut it! Bolt it! And think of EAS as those security bars you see on windows. Then put that plastic stuff up and seal it tight to keep yourself nice and warm and turn the focus on you. :) :)
Real life is yanking my chain today, but Alice I wanted to say to you if I didn't want you to make it I wouldn't be pushing you as hard as I do. I will continue to support and push you. That is how much I want it for you. It is soooo good here! I really and truly with all my heart want you to live the real life that was meant for you...Happy Day N_S
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Alice,
Your healing will depend on WHAT YOU HAVE DECIDED. NOT on what others have been able to accomplish when. Once you know you are done. a calm washes over you. You "are" in a different place. There isn't the self-torture that comes from waiting and wishing that he'll fish. Your focus is only on you and your healing. He becomes irrelevant. Time to start thinking different thoughts Alice. The only thing that is different about this time is that it is #3 attempt and not #2. What is going to prevent you from it being #4? NOT FOCUSING ON HIM AND GIVING YOUR POWER AWAY.
TU.
I cannot AGREE MORE - about
Alice,
I loved reading this....finally a truly authentic 'I' statement
"I wanna not feel like a failure who cannot achieve this goal..." now read it again
"I wanna not feel like a failure who cannot achieve this goal..."
say it over and over to yourself....a
breaking up with NC for an extended length of time, meaning more than 90 days NC?
at least eight or nine times over a ten year period
the last one (NC) lasted nine months and "almost worked"
this time i am 18
foggy, you're amazing.
so glad you're "here"
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Yes! Shut it! Bolt it! And think of EAS as those security bars you see on windows. Then put that plastic stuff up and seal it tight to keep yourself nice and warm and turn the focus on you. :) :)
Bodhi
It took xAP and I about 20 to 30
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