How many of us have broken no contact &
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How many of us have broken no contact &
| Sun, 05-16-2004 - 9:37pm |
had to start over? I know I did a few times as much as business would allow. How many of us managed to pick ourselves up and start over? I bet there are a lot of us! Have you? Was it any easier the 2nd or 3rd or 4th time?
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I guess from time to time I let myself think that since this is my first attempt at NC it doesn't necessarily have to be successful, that I'm allowed a few "relapses" before I get this right. Please tell me that aint the case - I can end this thing cold turkey on the first try!!! Thanks! Love, Mo.
For me the whole break up - NC - Get back together thing has been a very viscious cycle. I think its because we want to be together, but don't really have the courage in us to leave our marriages. And its more than courage actually - we both have little children, and there's no guarantee it would work for us, so why put everyone it that much pain?
However, if we aren't going to be together, then I need to get over him and work on where I am going to be (my marriage) - which is where I'm at now.
3 months is great -- I never broke it off that long during my prior attempts!