How pathetic........

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Registered: 01-10-2005
How pathetic........
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Wed, 01-26-2005 - 5:03pm
Interesting how things change when you establish your line and stand behind it. Ended things with the MM about a month ago for good. Told him point blank what the issues were, he had no answers and I told him to get out that it was over, no contact, no emails, no calls etc. So a week goes by, he sends an email. Doesn't understand why this happened..... says I had obviously rehearsed it blah blah blah. I responded said dont contact me anymore, its over, nothing more to say. A week goes by...... leaves me a voice mail at work on a sunday ....... cant understand why i am never online (he's blocked duh), why I wont return his emails etc........ I do not reply. Another email this week at work...... Same old story..... I say "look what part of its over and dont contact me dont you get? get on with your life, i'm getting on with mine" ...... he replies says "I cant get on with my life...... just tell me you dont love me anymore". I reply...... "I dont love you. Now leave me alone."
How empowering that simple statement was. I knew when I typed it that it was true. How can we love these men that treat us with such disregard when it really counts. Thats not love. Interesting that the men we thought were the be all end all of bliss and soulmatedom (is that a word?) can show themselves to be so weak and utterly unattractive by their actions or lack thereof. Stick to your guns ladies/men with the no contact. They are not worth the heartbreak of continued lies and disappointment. When you can finally break the habit its the most uplifting thing you can do for yourself. JMHO. Man I feel great today :-)
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Registered: 12-02-2004
Wed, 01-26-2005 - 5:12pm

Kelly,
YEE-HAW COWGIRL!!!!!!

You truly ROCK!!!!! And yes, I believe soulmatedom is a word and you are my eternal zen master of XOM ass-kicking!!!! That has to go down in the eternal archives as the greatest kiss-off/ tell-off ever imagined.

You have just inspired me in ways I thought could never be inspired, as well as rocking my world!!!!

Hugs and kisses
~meg

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Registered: 12-28-2003
Wed, 01-26-2005 - 7:50pm

"soulmatedom (is that a word?", IT IS NOW, be prepared to be quoted.

These guys were always pathetic we just did not want to see it.

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Registered: 12-05-2004
Wed, 01-26-2005 - 7:53pm

Preach on Sister Kelly!!!!

CONGRATULATIONS on your new found strength!!!

Keep that chin up and your head held high... you're really making the change!!!!

Way to go girl!

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