How to stop thinking about the S

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-27-2004
How to stop thinking about the S
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Mon, 11-29-2004 - 7:51am

I read all your messages below and I totally think I am ready to end this thing with MM. BUT, every time I think about the INCREDIBLE MIND BLOWING SEX I just fall right back into daydreaming about him and wanting him and obsessing and everything. It all comes right back to me. Especially if I think of one thing in particular that he does that my H could never do....

stuff like that.

HOW DO I LET GO OF THAT? Or, does it just fade with time? I don't know if I am strong enough to walk away from it - from that part of it. From that connection. From the sex. ALL MM HAS TO DO IS MENTION ONE WORD OF IT IN AN EMAIL AND I AM LIKE PUTTY IN HIS HANDS.

:(

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-28-2003
Mon, 11-29-2004 - 8:44am

Lov

Your start by no longer recieving or sending e-mail, IMs or any other communications with him in short NO CONTACT.

You need to be blocking his e-mail deleteing him from your address book removing him from your buddy list and if you insist on IM change your screen name and never talk to him again.

Why could your husband never do this thing have you talked to him about it ???

You stop this by talking the steps to stop it TOTAL NO CONTACT ENFORCED BY YOU.

Jmho

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