How to win him back

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-10-2010
How to win him back
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Tue, 05-25-2010 - 4:42pm
Okay, before I get lynched for wanting to win him back, I am talking about my husband and not xap!
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-17-2010
Tue, 05-25-2010 - 9:09pm

Dear Keep,


I can't give you a solid advice b/c i didn't have Dday but i pray that God will

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-10-2010
Wed, 05-26-2010 - 2:16am

Thank you, Liberty.


You are always so kind to offer encouraging and heartfelt words.

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-17-2010
Wed, 05-26-2010 - 5:02am

How I wish I knew Keep.

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-02-2010
Wed, 05-26-2010 - 9:53am

Hi Keep-


My H left me after our 2 DDay. At the time, I was more devstated by the loss of xap than the loss of my H and I spent the next few weeks getting drunk and truly hitting rock bottom. After some time away, H did come back because I asked him to, but I went back to xap too and we had a 3rd DDay in January. I am such a jerk

Jane
NC/LC since January 28, 2010
http://secretlifeofjane.wordpress.com/
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Registered: 08-18-2008
Wed, 05-26-2010 - 3:30pm

Hi KS,


As I posted before, my DH walked out after D-day and said he was filing for D. I let him go and did not try to stop him. Later I told him I only wanted him to come back and work on our M for the RIGHT reasons. I didn’t want him to come back because he felt obligated, for the sake of the children or because he was settling. I wanted him to come back if he truly loved me, could forgive me and wanted to work on our M.

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