My H left me after our 2 DDay. At the time, I was more devstated by the loss of xap than the loss of my H and I spent the next few weeks getting drunk and truly hitting rock bottom. After some time away, H did come back because I asked him to, but I went back to xap too and we had a 3rd DDay in January. I am such a jerk
As I posted before, my DH walked out after D-day and said he was filing for D. I let him go and did not try to stop him. Later I told him I only wanted him to come back and work on our M for the RIGHT reasons. I didn’t want him to come back because he felt obligated, for the sake of the children or because he was settling. I wanted him to come back if he truly loved me, could forgive me and wanted to work on our M.
Whether you think you can or you think you can't you are probably right. A parrot can repeat what it has learned but the mark of true intelligence is applying what is learned.
Dear Keep,
I can't give you a solid advice b/c i didn't have Dday but i pray that God will
Thank you, Liberty.
You are always so kind to offer encouraging and heartfelt words.
How I wish I knew Keep.
Hi Keep-
My H left me after our 2 DDay. At the time, I was more devstated by the loss of xap than the loss of my H and I spent the next few weeks getting drunk and truly hitting rock bottom. After some time away, H did come back because I asked him to, but I went back to xap too and we had a 3rd DDay in January. I am such a jerk
NC/LC since January 28, 2010
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Hi KS,
As I posted before, my DH walked out after D-day and said he was filing for D. I let him go and did not try to stop him. Later I told him I only wanted him to come back and work on our M for the RIGHT reasons. I didn’t want him to come back because he felt obligated, for the sake of the children or because he was settling. I wanted him to come back if he truly loved me, could forgive me and wanted to work on our M.
Whether you think you can or you think you can't you are probably right. A parrot can repeat what it has learned but the mark of true intelligence is applying what is learned.