Humble Request

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Registered: 10-14-2010
Humble Request
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Sat, 12-25-2010 - 3:04am

I slept all day & am up late doing my Self-Healing Homework and ran across a STICKLER for me. Im trying to change my faulty beliefs but I happened upon one...that I (sadly) am having a REALLY TOUGH TIME...refuting.

Your vision will become clear only when you look into your heart... Who looks outside, dreams. Who looks inside, awakens. I started looking inside and went NC October 15, 2010
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Tue, 01-04-2011 - 2:30am

That sounds really good <3 ache!

Ill check that out too!

Thanks, Im glad I just re read this thread to see your addition!

xo,

Michelle

Your vision will become clear only when you look into your heart... Who looks outside, dreams. Who looks inside, awakens. I started looking inside and went NC October 15, 2010
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Registered: 05-23-2003
Tue, 01-04-2011 - 12:23pm

I shared this link on my board, but I sometimes forget that not everyone is as cross-posty as I am.

    

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Registered: 10-14-2010
Tue, 01-04-2011 - 1:45pm

Thank you Kim for sharing this!

Im gathering up some headphones to listen while at work. :)

Happy 2011 to you!!!!

Michelle

Your vision will become clear only when you look into your heart... Who looks outside, dreams. Who looks inside, awakens. I started looking inside and went NC October 15, 2010
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Registered: 05-23-2003
Tue, 01-04-2011 - 2:03pm
Happy new year to you as well. :)

Let me know what you think of it - it hit me very hard, personally so I'm curious to see if others have the same response.

(It's that "how weird am I" check we all do sometimes...)

Kim

    

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Registered: 04-01-2010
Tue, 01-04-2011 - 4:12pm

justkim,

I don't cruise around too much on other boards, but I was doing that this weekend and came across this video that you posted. It was awesome!! it gave me so much to think about.

Oct. 12, 2010 -- began my personal search and rescue mission.
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Registered: 10-05-2008
Tue, 01-04-2011 - 9:59pm

hi there,

i can only share with you from my personal

" Some would say that i fell from grace;but in reality i leaped! "
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Registered: 08-18-2008
Tue, 01-04-2011 - 11:26pm

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Whether you think you can or you think you can't you are probably right. A parrot can repeat what it has learned but the mark of true intelligence is applying what is learned.

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Registered: 08-18-2008
Tue, 01-04-2011 - 11:40pm

Hi Belle,

E1 waving wildly!

Glad to read you are still working towards balance and yes the love of God is that Agape (Greek) love. That unconditional love which only God can give.

Much love and big hugs,

E1

Whether you think you can or you think you can't you are probably right. A parrot can repeat what it has learned but the mark of true intelligence is applying what is learned.

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Registered: 08-18-2008
Wed, 01-05-2011 - 12:20am

Michelle,

Hi and happy New Year!

How is that beautiful grandbaby doing?

I don’t believe those feelings of worth come from out of nowhere. They generated somewhere.

Whether you think you can or you think you can't you are probably right. A parrot can repeat what it has learned but the mark of true intelligence is applying what is learned.

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Registered: 10-05-2008
Wed, 01-05-2011 - 6:52am

<<< So two failed Ms (marriages) and I’m guess this last R (relationship) started as an A
(affair) since you are posting here? >>>

yes the R began as an A.

<<< Did you have anytime on your own without a R to really process the ending of each M and
re-evaluate or were all your R’s one after the other? >>>

yes there were time gaps between R's.

<<< Have you gone to counseling to figure out what got you into those two failed Ms in the first
place? >>>

yes rec'd marriage counseling during both prev.failed M's; and rec'd individual counseling
during 2 seperate circumstances.

<<< On the one hand it is great if you have someone that loves you. On the other hand what we
have learned here on EAS is that love is not enough. It takes so much more to make a R work.
We have also learned and some are still in the process of learning how to love ourselves and
not rely on anyone else for our happiness.

" Some would say that i fell from grace;but in reality i leaped! "