I am finally free....

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Registered: 03-26-2003
I am finally free....
Tue, 05-13-2003 - 2:44pm
I had not seen XOM in 5 months until the other day. I finally decided to call him and ask him to meet me.

We met at his place and we sat and talked in my car. I didn't let him make a move on me and I CERTAINLY didn't try myself!

He looked VERY happy to see me and nervous too. I could pick it up easily.

I was very non-expressive and just relaxed.

He complimented me on my weight loss, told me I looked nice and asked about my kids.

I told him that my marriage was going well and that things were MUCH different now. I know he could read between the lines and get what I was saying... "I'm over you buddy!"

Then as he was saying something about last year and the whole episode between us I interrupted and said, "Oh sorry, I have to go now."

That was SWEEEET! He looked dumbfounded!

Well that's what he gets for treating me SO badly last year. My turn now. And I'm all about the best kind of revenge... LIVING WELL!!!

Ladies (and gents) I know it seems hard right now but if you just LET GO of that MM, OM, or OW and give yourselves time to regroup you will find the strength to forget him or her.

There is so much more to life than holding on to what you can't have... I am living proof.

You are worth SO much more than being second best.

Hope you all have your "day" too!!

Lots of hugs and best wishes!!

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Registered: 04-30-2003
Tue, 05-13-2003 - 3:06pm
WOOHOO GIRL. I can't wait for my "day", either... LOL
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Registered: 03-27-2003
Tue, 05-13-2003 - 3:20pm
Way to go girl! Having "my day" is a fantasy..maybe one day I'll be as lucky as you to have it...in the meantime, I'll always be looking my best when he sees me ;)