I am married, he's single...anyone else?
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I am married, he's single...anyone else?
| Tue, 01-19-2010 - 10:28am |
Just wondering if there is anyone in the same situation as me.
| Tue, 01-19-2010 - 10:28am |
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My experience...wow, how much time do you have?
In a nutshell...A lasted more than five years and has been over since December 2008.
As you already know, I'm in the same boat...
I'm M and my xAP had an on-again off-again GF so I do not know if that counts. Sometimes he was single and sometimes he wasn't.
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Honestly, it was all about changing my way of thinking.
Yes, I am married and he is single...though, until recently, he had a live-in GF for awhile. She moved out but it seems he is pining for her even more now...and it's destroying me. Did I mention she's younger and has much better body? I have turned into a jealous freak. Definitely a self-esteem killer every time I sense he's been talking to her or has seen her.
The clincher is is that he has pretty much told me that even if I were single, I'm too old for him (i.e. can't have anymore kids). Even though this hurts like hell...I STILL want him. It's pathetic.
Even though I cannot stand my husband, he doesn't deserve this.
I keep thinking how selfish I am...but it will hurt so much when this guy finds someone new and wants a real relationship. And I know it will happen. So I must remain strong. So hard when I work with him. I'm job hunting and so is he, thank goodness.
Hugs (and higs),
Misty
RRgirl,
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