I am married, he's single...anyone else?

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Registered: 12-11-2009
I am married, he's single...anyone else?
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Tue, 01-19-2010 - 10:28am
Just wondering if there is anyone in the same situation as me.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 06-26-2006
Tue, 01-19-2010 - 11:13am
Yep (raising hand), I'm with you there.
iVillage Member
Registered: 12-11-2009
Tue, 01-19-2010 - 11:19am
Can you tell me what your experience has been?
iVillage Member
Registered: 06-26-2006
Tue, 01-19-2010 - 11:35am

My experience...wow, how much time do you have?


In a nutshell...A lasted more than five years and has been over since December 2008.

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-04-2009
Tue, 01-19-2010 - 3:06pm

As you already know, I'm in the same boat...


NC since October 2, 2009.

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Registered: 08-18-2008
Tue, 01-19-2010 - 3:20pm

I'm M and my xAP had an on-again off-again GF so I do not know if that counts. Sometimes he was single and sometimes he wasn't.


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iVillage Member
Registered: 12-11-2009
Wed, 01-20-2010 - 9:28am
Hi again girl2006,
iVillage Member
Registered: 06-26-2006
Wed, 01-20-2010 - 12:28pm

Honestly, it was all about changing my way of thinking.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-02-2009
Wed, 01-20-2010 - 6:43pm
Not only am I married and he's single, but he dumped me for a very homely, much younger woman!
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Registered: 01-16-2010
Wed, 01-20-2010 - 11:26pm

Yes, I am married and he is single...though, until recently, he had a live-in GF for awhile. She moved out but it seems he is pining for her even more now...and it's destroying me. Did I mention she's younger and has much better body? I have turned into a jealous freak. Definitely a self-esteem killer every time I sense he's been talking to her or has seen her.

The clincher is is that he has pretty much told me that even if I were single, I'm too old for him (i.e. can't have anymore kids). Even though this hurts like hell...I STILL want him. It's pathetic.

Even though I cannot stand my husband, he doesn't deserve this.

I keep thinking how selfish I am...but it will hurt so much when this guy finds someone new and wants a real relationship. And I know it will happen. So I must remain strong. So hard when I work with him. I'm job hunting and so is he, thank goodness.

Hugs (and higs),

Misty

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Registered: 12-11-2009
Wed, 01-20-2010 - 11:52pm

RRgirl,

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