I am not a Promoter....

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Registered: 03-26-2003
I am not a Promoter....
Thu, 05-15-2003 - 12:05pm
Ladies:

I am not a promoter or advertiser for Oprah or Dr. Phil.....bbbbbut I saw a commercial on TV last night about an article that may be of interest to us ladies. The article is by Dr. Phil and it will be in Oprah's monthly magazine that comes out May 20th.

And you guess'd right...its about MEN. Like for example Dr. Phil states that a man's worst fear is Rejection and if he thinks he is going to be rejected he will reject you first! There were other example questions and answers I can not remember it all but it sounds interesting and may give us ladies who are on this board some insight as what we are looking for in a man and have atleast an idea of what their thinking is about. I am in the process of healing and most likely you are too or you wouldn't be on this board. But the article may help us weather we are walking away or getting our lives right to meet the man of our choice. I am in the process of healing, I am not even looking or dating but we MUST start realizing we deserve better than a MM. I can't wait to get my magazine. And I will let you in on a secret... I will be comparing my xMM to some of the details of the article but I firmly believe it will help me see that he was definitely not close to being the man I wanted him to be. I used to "ask" him could we work in the yard, help fix things around the house...it never got done. Why? because I was trying to form him into being a boyfriend, a soul mate friend and that's what I refused to understand.... he did all this at home with and for his W. It was to be only S-E-X with us. So I am just suggesting some reading that may help us (especially me) that we deserve to be with a man who has traits that will help us grow rather then just HIM!!!

Have a peacful and successful week.........rain....