I am xAP Spouse, just disguised in an A

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Registered: 10-14-2009
I am xAP Spouse, just disguised in an A
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Wed, 10-14-2009 - 5:23pm
It finally sunk in that the things my xAp complained about thier spouse would easily transfer to nearly identical complaints of me given a reasonable amount of real world time. And no doubt some additional gripes. I am no better than my xAP spouse. Probably worse.
"You Cant Lose What You Never Had" ---

Muddy Waters
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Registered: 08-18-2008
Wed, 10-14-2009 - 8:57pm

Hi DDB,


You must have a Braille key board...ok that was a poor attempt at humor.


I get what you are saying. Yes after years in a relationship with xAP he/she could complain about us the same way he/she currently complains about his/her wife/husband or SO.


I love how many (not all

Whether you think you can or you think you can't you are probably right. A parrot can repeat what it has learned but the mark of true intelligence is applying what is learned.

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Registered: 07-28-2009
Thu, 10-15-2009 - 9:43am

I love reading your posts!!!