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| Sat, 11-21-2009 - 4:14pm |
I am going through NC now after almost 4 years of knowing ex-MM, and 3 years in the A....most of you probably already know this.
Throughout my experience in the A, I've come to boards for support/help/guidance and THIS board has given me the greatest support/help/guidance than any other.

Hi Mickey, I've no advice just a hug and I wish you well towards your recovery. Ending my A is the hardest thing I have ever gone through and at my grand old age (46!!) I've been through a few tough things. My A was 3 years too (known each other for 4)
There is light at the end of the tunnel I try to distract myself with anything, music, tv, brushing my teeth whatever ... when the thoughts come. I now do a lot of exercise and my body looks ok which has helped with my inner confidence. It took a huge effort to get myself out of bed somedays though, I could have stayed hidden under the duvet forever. But there is a world out there - so many cliches in A land but fake it till you make it has got me through some tough spots.
You are in good company here - endings is a long process isn't it? Its weird I thought the A would end and that would be it but the aftermath is unbelievable, and I am very thankful too I found this board.
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Roxy
I agree with this very thoughtful post. It is funny though....when I first came back here after many failed attempts of NC....I felt judged and criticized. I felt like people were to hard on me and just didn't understand. I now
Hi Roxy,
This experience has been one of the toughest I've had to deal with.
It's impossible to see that you have anything to offer up to your husband and or marriage right now.
Mickey -
When I first started posting here, one of my concerns/questions was how to even begin rebuilding my marriage (if that was possible).
To Clarity & Gal,
Thank you both.