I better rename this, "Ooops! I go a little bit crazy in here!" ...

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I better rename this, "Ooops! I go a little bit crazy in here!" ...
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Fri, 10-22-2010 - 10:52pm

Well, Ive been caught in the UNDERTOW of emotion today.

I had

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CLINK CLINK!!! CHEEEERRRRRRRRRRRRRSsssSS!!!!!!!!

Your vision will become clear only when you look into your heart... Who looks outside, dreams. Who looks inside, awakens. I started looking inside and went NC October 15, 2010
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Hi Michelle,

Sorry to hear about your purse being stolen, that is terrible.

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Thanks, (((Jen)))

nothing that can't be replaced with about 3hours on hold & using the USPS to get replacement cards. SS, birth card, CCs, DL ...you know....My plastic life. :)

Very true!! NOTHING is gna hold me back. It's just so S I M P L E

How was everything for you today??? I was a little off the radar for a minute. Everything good? :)

I hope so.

Thanks for saying, Hello.

xo

Your vision will become clear only when you look into your heart... Who looks outside, dreams. Who looks inside, awakens. I started looking inside and went NC October 15, 2010
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There is nothing like being on hold for three hours is there! :smileysurprised:

Today was

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NL -

I'm not going to ask how you know that XAP is cyber stalking you, and I'm glad you've decided to continue posting. I have to say though, that I was surprised that you put a recognizable photo of yourself and (I assume) have used your real name. When you first posted, you said XAP is a prominent man - which is why I'm surprised. Mine is as well, and "secrecy" for myself has always been a concern for me. My XAP stalked me - literally - for over a month and it was scary.

I guess what I'm trying to say is, the level of anonymity here is up to you. You could change your screen name and start over if you are concerned that he'll be reading everything you write. Just be careful - the written word can always come back to bite you.

On another note - I'm sorry about your purse - that really sucks. My car was broken into several years ago and mine was stolen as well - ever since, I keep a piece of paper at home with all the contents of my wallet - credit card numbers, etc. - makes it easier to remember everything you need to cancel :)

Bodhi

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If your xAP is married then you can post on how you can "out" him if he keeps up his cyberstalking activities, i.e. veiled threat.

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Bodhi,

THATS A GREAT IDEA! I am sooo going to do that! (the list of cc #'s & such)

Well...I struggled with the anonymity thing...

First - I wanted to develop more of a real bond with the group here so figured by posting who I really am would be more of a genuine experience.

Other edge of that sword - is that I was NAIVE in thinking that xap would NOT cyberstalk. (although I wasnt thinking of him to ANY degree...) but when deciding if I should post a pic/ use my real name- It was complete FREEDOM thinking

Your vision will become clear only when you look into your heart... Who looks outside, dreams. Who looks inside, awakens. I started looking inside and went NC October 15, 2010
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Hey MHash!

Thanks for the reply.

Your vision will become clear only when you look into your heart... Who looks outside, dreams. Who looks inside, awakens. I started looking inside and went NC October 15, 2010
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Jen!

OMG! you KNOW IT! (nothing like being on hold for 3 hours) I swear...when they finally got on ...I was so mad, I almost forgot what I called for! :) I said...well, while I've been waiting on hold to report my card stolen...they've probably already opened 3 credit cards & leased a house...:)

Your vision will become clear only when you look into your heart... Who looks outside, dreams. Who looks inside, awakens. I started looking inside and went NC October 15, 2010

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