I broke up w/MM!!!

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-07-2005
I broke up w/MM!!!
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Fri, 02-25-2005 - 5:12pm

Hi All!!!

Well I ended my A on Monday and I have not talked to MM since. I saw him yesterday, but I did not even say hi to him. Please read my story below. I posted in the My Affair Support, but realized I should have posted here.

I miss him very much, but I am not going to call him. I just wonder if he misses me as much. I am here looking at the pics he gave me, GOD I love him so much. Our A lasted ony 3 months, but it was a very emotional A. At least that is what he made it seem like. We only had IC once and we were ok without IC. We only needed our company, but then he became distant adn would say he would call and not call. So I decided on ending the A. I started to feel like I was bothering him, even though he assured me that I did not bother him, it was just that he had a lot of work.

http://messageboards.ivillage.com/n/mb/message.asp?webtag=iv-rlmyaffair&msg=39657.1&ctx=0

I would apreciate your inputs on this matter.

Take care,

Pye...

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-10-2004
In reply to: pyemia
Sat, 02-26-2005 - 6:55pm
Well I am sorry to see you hurting so much but it will get easier! I also have had NC until yesterday with MM and it seems when I talk to him it only brings back the feelings I have for him. We worked together and 2 weeks ago he quit. He promised me in the parking lot before he left he would call the next day and that we would see each other again. He is supposed to start traveling and said we could meet out of town. Well yesterday me and a co-worker called him to see how he was and I asked him why he did not call. He tells me he doesn't know yet(in other words he is not traveling and does not know when we can get together). I think deep down he is trying to never see me again and doesn't have the nerve to tell me. They are all chicken shi%$ when it comes to breaking up with us and don't have the balls to tell us. He could have easily called me and his excuse to that was he has been busy. I just did not make a big deal out of it and when I heard his voice yesterday I can tell that the "out of sight" out of mind" is beginning to work. Now when I talk to him I can remember all the crap he fed me and now I am ANGRY I bought the crap.
Try to stay away from him and have NC with him. It will get easier and will make you think about all the times he has disappointed you and hurt you. We all deserve better than this!!!
I have another SM I talk to and he calls me all the time and will drop anything to see me...... which shows me there are still men out there who care enough about us women and know how to treat a woman! He knows I am unhappily M and am getting a D soon and right now we are just friends because I don't want to base this R on deceit and lies. If I had a physical R with him then he would never be able to trust me in the future.
You can find someone who makes you feel special and who will call and meet you when they say they will. When we let these MM take advantage of us (even one time)we lose!