I CAN do it

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-10-2008
I CAN do it
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Mon, 02-22-2010 - 8:25am

Hey Ladies,


I'm not a pro at quitting an A but I happen to have some expertise on making crap decisions that hurt me, hurt others and could potentially destroy the people I love.


What I vow this week is to choose DIGNITY over DESTRUCTION.

I deserve my Dignity.
NC since 2/4/2010
iVillage Member
Registered: 08-27-2008
In reply to: dignityplease
Mon, 02-22-2010 - 9:41am

Of course you can do it! I can do it, we all have the inner strength to do so. Its all about making that choice making ourselves the priority and doing what is right for us and not getting caught up in the fantasy.

The part you said about being noble is so true and I thank you for saying it. Its the day in and day out, the putting in the hours the hard work, the endurance, knowing that our real life is our commitment to ourselves to our families and husbands. I want to be a good wife, a great mother, I want to teach and bring forward my knowledge; but you or I will never be able to do that until we realize what we have standing right there in front of us. I think everyday in NC is one day closer to being happy as a person and the happiness and growth will reflect on the ones we love the most.

Today is a new day for me;although I do have thoughts of AXP Im curving those thoughts into the negative and reminding myself that my H is everything that I wanted in a man. Ive been here before and I know it will get better...once I swift thru all the junk again but thats OK cause theres something I didnt learn in these last 6 months that I need to go back and learn.

But your absolutely right, you CAN and you ARE doing it!

DM

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-22-2007
In reply to: dignityplease
Mon, 02-22-2010 - 9:48am

You beat me to the punch!

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-28-2010
In reply to: dignityplease
Mon, 02-22-2010 - 12:28pm
I just want to say, I <3 this thread! Thanks everyone who posted such encouraging and reassuring words. There are hiccups along the way, but it gets better every day...
iVillage Member
Registered: 01-10-2010
In reply to: dignityplease
Mon, 02-22-2010 - 1:15pm

Dignity,


Your post was EXACTLY what I needed to read today.

Imustenjoypain!
iVillage Member
Registered: 10-01-2009
In reply to: dignityplease
Mon, 02-22-2010 - 2:02pm

Such an awesome post, dignity. Thank you. I needed it. I am the queen of failing at no contact (well i WAS the queen) but today is the day I change it.

Thank you again.

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-18-2008
In reply to: dignityplease
Thu, 02-25-2010 - 8:08am

Hi alesan


I have recently ended my 3yr affair, with the help of this board.

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-25-2010
In reply to: dignityplease
Thu, 02-25-2010 - 9:35am

Wow

New Choices, New Chapter,


New Challenges,

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-20-2009
In reply to: dignityplease
Thu, 02-25-2010 - 10:24am

Dignity,


Now we are are choosing DIGNITY over DESTRUCTION with DETERMINATION.

BE the change that you want to see in the world! Life loves me and I love life! <3