I can't believe he had the nerve to...
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I can't believe he had the nerve to...
| Fri, 10-15-2004 - 11:02am |
email me back! For those of you who read my post a few days ago, you know I sent my xOM the NC email. It was titled "Final Words". I basically said I was tired of him using me and didn't want to have anything to do with him anymore, as a friend or anything else. Well, I was feeling pretty good about it (he hadn't responded, so I thought he was finally taking me seriously) until I checked my email -and there it was! He actually responded! Jerk! Here is his response:
"Final words, huh? You flip-flop more than John Kerry. Quit freaking out everytime I don't respond to an email in under twelve seconds."
I was so pissed! I started to email him back, then thought - No...but then emailed back anyway. Here is what I said:
"I'm not freaking out - I'm finally using my backbone. Any further emails from you will be deleted without being read - don't waste your time."
Just needed to vent...

NOW is the time to stick to your guns.
Don't read any more emails.
NO CONTACT!!
You can do it!
Do NOT read them, that's what the delete button is for! just stay strong. I need to have faith that it CAN be done! and you are one of the strongest people I know!
Believe me, you have nothing to gain by continuing to talk to him. All he can do is cause MORE pain and interfere with your healing.
He's not worth it. Be strong!!
What a GREAT response! You go girl!!!!!!!
Lily
What a cool email response! After today I am questioning my own strength to reply in such a way that says "I am in charge of myself and you are getting nowhere with me ever again" the next time my XMM contacts me. I am inspired by your final message!!
Thanks!
Meg