I can't do this alone I need help

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Registered: 05-04-2010
I can't do this alone I need help
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Mon, 05-31-2010 - 1:32pm

I've tried ending it so many times and always, always go right back into it. I've lurked here for so long and each time I try to end I think I will start posting after a week or so, so that everyone will know I'm serious, but this time I have to post right now, today. I need help because I have no more energy for this affair. I'm emotionally spent. Today is day 1.

Thank you,
Diamond

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Registered: 05-31-2010
Mon, 05-31-2010 - 1:55pm

Hi, Diamond. Being emotionally spent is par for the course when you're in an affair and/or ending it. We've all been there. You will find lots of support here. I have to see xAP 1-2 times before summer and I'm not looking forward to it-brings back the storm in my head and sets me back. NC for 4 days and looking forward to when I can be completely NC. Read, post, breathe.

RTG

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Registered: 04-28-2010
Mon, 05-31-2010 - 2:11pm

Hi Diamond,


Congratulations on Day 1 NC!

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Registered: 04-20-2009
Mon, 05-31-2010 - 3:28pm
You're not alone. We're here for you. I know you're emotionally spent, but try to muster up just a smidge of joyfulness and celebration that you are now on the road to freedom and healing. It's not a death, it's a birth. I pray for your peace and strength today, Diamond!
Best!
Dee
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Registered: 04-05-2010
Mon, 05-31-2010 - 7:15pm
Welcome Diamond!!! Day 1...that is the beginning of a wonderful