You're not a fool. Pick yourself up and go back to your NC. Little inspiration for you - I liked and remembered your name "Crumbsnomore" and was actually repeating it to myself when I went LC with my x:)
What helps me to stay away - telling myself that nothing has changed and nothing ever will. My x has hurt me so many times, I lost count. He broke all his promises to me, he lied to me, he disrespected and mistreated me. I miss him like hell because I still have feelings for him, but so what.
Come on my girl!...I love you, BUT you caved into your drug....you gave all your power away...OK...Ask yourself this....Did you like being talked to like that?
I've been there too, no worries, this is just a bump in the road. Dust yourself off and keep moving forward on the RIGHT path...and block his cell # if you can since it's a temptation for you.
One of my fav mantras (which I actually got from watching Tiger Woods' speech/confession/apology) that works for me is LIVE WITH INTEGRITY. That is what 2010 is all about for me, livin' with integrity :)
Well, if anything, you just learned that he hasn't changed one iota and only has one thing on his mind. This is how he equates YOU to whatever it was you had. Not too flattering, is it? I know, my dear. BTDT and have the T-shirt to prove it.
It took guts to come here and tell us about it, so I know you have the guts to start over again and THIS time you'll be a lot smarter and a lot stronger.
You're not a fool. Pick yourself up and go back to your NC. Little inspiration for you - I liked and remembered your name "Crumbsnomore" and was actually repeating it to myself when I went LC with my x:)
What helps me to stay away - telling myself that nothing has changed and nothing ever will. My x has hurt me so many times, I lost count. He broke all his promises to me, he lied to me, he disrespected and mistreated me. I miss him like hell because I still have feelings for him, but so what.
XOXO
Gone
Come on my girl!...I love you, BUT you caved into your drug....you gave all your power away...OK...Ask yourself this....Did you like being talked to like that?
I've been there too, no worries, this is just a bump in the road. Dust yourself off and keep moving forward on the RIGHT path...and block his cell # if you can since it's a temptation for you.
One of my fav mantras (which I actually got from watching Tiger Woods' speech/confession/apology) that works for me is LIVE WITH INTEGRITY. That is what 2010 is all about for me, livin' with integrity :)
Good luck cnm!!
CNM,
Well, if anything, you just learned that he hasn't changed one iota and only has one thing on his mind. This is how he equates YOU to whatever it was you had. Not too flattering, is it? I know, my dear. BTDT and have the T-shirt to prove it.
It took guts to come here and tell us about it, so I know you have the guts to start over again and THIS time you'll be a lot smarter and a lot stronger.
(((Hugs)))
~Iddy~
Thank you everyone for your support.
Congrats to u crumbsnomore for wanting to more forward.