I did it!

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-17-2009
I did it!
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Mon, 08-24-2009 - 12:06pm

I made the decision, for myself, to go NC.

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-11-2009
In reply to: lostagaingal
Mon, 08-24-2009 - 2:14pm

Good for you.

 

              &n

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-28-2009
In reply to: lostagaingal
Mon, 08-24-2009 - 4:53pm

Dear Lost...


Good for you!!!

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-06-2007
In reply to: lostagaingal
Mon, 08-24-2009 - 5:09pm

lost,


I am so happy to hear this news! Girl, you were in some pretty deep water this guy and I was so afraid he was going to drag you down deeper. He is bad, bad news. You have so much dirt on him, now you know he's not the man you thought he was.


I hope you stay strong and refuse any contact from him. I hope and pray you don't give in and contact him. He sounds like a con - and one that has done this over and over. Don't be another victim. Put up your iron wall and get tough.

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-21-2009
In reply to: lostagaingal
Wed, 08-26-2009 - 6:35am
Congrats on getting to where you are!!! Stay strong girl, I too was in an almost 2 year relationship with a chronic liar--at one time I had a close friend ask me "what are you trying to prove staying in this toxic A." Looking back I think I was trying to justify all the time, energy and money I spent on xAP-to prove that it wasn't a complete waste. However, I found out that YES it was a complete waste and I was just wasting more of my precious time on a complete loser and willing to risk my family and life on someone that was never worth my time or even remotely worthy of me. Hang in there--you will get to a point where you say whew so happy to be out of that! There are lows and highs through the ending process; but, eventually the lows become fewer and fewer. Again, congrats!