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I Feel Like a Fake
| Fri, 01-15-2010 - 9:28am |
Hi All,
I'm really, really trying to work on my M but it doesn't seem to be working for me.
| Fri, 01-15-2010 - 9:28am |
Hi All,
I'm really, really trying to work on my M but it doesn't seem to be working for me.
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I know how you feel (some of it anyway)... having a hard time dealing w/ marriage and then also having some real life also adding stress to the situation... This is when I also just want to be alone....
Mickey~
Good Morning.
Hi Beautiful & Lynn,
The urge to contact ex-MM is strong today, but I don't think I will cave.
Mickey,
You won't be able to make a sound decision on your M until you are better and out of the A completely..that includes the emotional part. Only then you will clearly see your M for what it is.
Give yourself time. Your H can't push you. If he loves you he will be there for you in a few weeks or months after you have started to feel better. If he isn't there it just means he didn't care to stick around. But none of this matters. Until you are better, nothing else will be better. Don't worry about other people so much, Mickey. Look after yourself.
Sunshine
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Mickey~
I know for me it took me a few weeks to really feel better when starting the new med's.
As far as your M.
hi mickey,
Like Lynn said, one day at a time.
I want you to know you are not alone in how you feel. I wish I could give you answers, but all I can do is tell you what I experienced.
I never enjoyed the sex in my marriage, it was a duty and one I dreaded, for over 30 yrs.
Live,
For me, I feel resentful that H has given me this sex ultimatum when he knows I'm going through depression.
Well, those threats aren't exactly going to get you in the mood, are they?
mickey,
asking a guy to wait for 6, 7, 8 mos. is a looong time! As a female, we might understand we need time and space, but most men can't understand that.
Perhaps sitting down and having a honest frank discussion about this is needed. You both need to come to a middle ground. Maybe your H has to give and you do as well.
mickey, focus on what you want, set a goal and work for it. you can do it.
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