I Feel Like a Fake

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-15-2009
I Feel Like a Fake
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Fri, 01-15-2010 - 9:28am

Hi All,


I'm really, really trying to work on my M but it doesn't seem to be working for me.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 07-24-2005
Fri, 01-15-2010 - 11:27am

Can you take some time for yourself, Mickey?


iVillage Member
Registered: 08-15-2009
Fri, 01-15-2010 - 11:46am

Thanks Live,


You're right....I know that H feels awful that I'm constantly rejecting him.

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-15-2009
Fri, 01-15-2010 - 11:50am

Bandk,


I did read both of your posts, btw.

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-15-2009
Fri, 01-15-2010 - 11:58am

Oh WithClarity,


How I would LOVE to take some time alone!!

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-24-2005
Fri, 01-15-2010 - 12:27pm

Tough situation, Mickey


How about making a list of all your wants and needs (of course JAM won't be listed ;).


iVillage Member
Registered: 08-18-2008
Fri, 01-15-2010 - 3:23pm

Hi Mickey,


Big (((hugz))),


As other’s have posted, part of what you are going through is normal and we all have experienced it on one level or another.


IMHO there is more to your situation that meets the eye.


I’m going to get a little down and deep.

Whether you think you can or you think you can't you are probably right. A parrot can repeat what it has learned but the mark of true intelligence is applying what is learned.

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-06-2007
Fri, 01-15-2010 - 4:16pm

E1,


I think you may be on to something. Of course we don't know, but mickey, it certainly is something to think about.


E1, the way you described it as holding on to something and letting it destroy you is exactly what I was going through. I was holding on to the years of resentment, all stacked on top of one another. Had I not made a tough decision to just let it go, stop fighting it so hard

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