I finally belong on this board....

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Mon, 12-14-2009 - 6:06pm
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Edited 12/15/2009 11:10 pm ET by llostagain

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Tue, 12-15-2009 - 10:42pm

wow I think you are on to something. While in A he always told me he wanted to go to swingers places etc.. have threesomes... I thought he was just having fantasies. Or I would text what are you doing? small chat.. he would say j*rking off.. I would laugh it off and say "sure"? LOL he was saying seriously I am.. would send a pic to phone to confirm. He is very sexual (which I liked as well) but near the end he was not or couldnt get together with me. That is a great indicator that he has moved on to another. He said he wasnt having sex with LIGF but she just had a baby. Asked him about that he said that she "set him up" ya like it takes much to get him to have sex?? pleeeease. But guess what I still stuck around. SO SAD!! That is a thing of the past. Now to get through the rest.

Oh and forgot to mention.. and I know I will get alot of "gasps" but we never protected ourselves. Funny thing is I have gotten so many UTI's over the last couple of years. I do have to say that I was "monogamous" with him ONLY. Since I have not been with him.. no problems. Still stuck around?!?

Also I do have to agree with a piece of advice that was already given.. discontinue your R with the W. She is not on your side. Get good people around you and leave ALL of that behind.

Talk soon :-)




Edited 12/15/2009 10:48 pm ET by i_believe_in_myself
Time heals all wounds, unless you pick at them. --Shawn Alexander
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Tue, 12-15-2009 - 11:02pm

Hey llost,


Isnt it nice to be over here on EAS? We were running together on MAS and our A's seemed to have ended for us around the same time. Interesting. Hopefully we will see our other friends over here soon.


I just wanted to say that I also think you shouldnt talk to the W anymore. She seems kinda off. I know we all have our issues but she is a strange one. Both of them are. I just dont have a good feeling

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Tue, 12-15-2009 - 11:08pm

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Edited 12/17/2009 5:48 pm ET by llostagain

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Tue, 12-15-2009 - 11:17pm
Ya know, I really hate to hear OW say negative things about the Wife or in this case, LIGF.
Onward and upward.
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Tue, 12-15-2009 - 11:32pm

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Edited 12/17/2009 5:49 pm ET by llostagain

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Tue, 12-15-2009 - 11:45pm

hi energy,


I didnt mean anything when I was talking about the W. I dont normally

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Tue, 12-15-2009 - 11:49pm

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Edited 12/17/2009 5:50 pm ET by llostagain

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Wed, 12-16-2009 - 12:01am

Yes, I think

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Wed, 12-16-2009 - 12:56am

Oh I see.

Onward and upward.
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Wed, 12-16-2009 - 1:09am
Next relationship? haha... My mind is so far from relationships - its no where near my radar. I'm working on repairing my broken heart, my self-esteem, and my trust issues now.

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