I finally belong on this board....

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-22-2009
I finally belong on this board....
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Mon, 12-14-2009 - 6:06pm
Privacy.


Edited 12/15/2009 11:10 pm ET by llostagain

NC since Dec. 9th 2009

No Contact = No N

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iVillage Member
Registered: 12-07-2009
Wed, 12-16-2009 - 8:08am

IIA,

I have never officially welcomed you to the board, so welcome. I got caught up in the drama playing out since your ending and wasn't quite sure how to respond. Besides, you received a lot of support right away, so you were being taken care of. I do have to comment now though. ;-)

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I hope you are done talking to the BS. Whether she was using you for info or was just plain starving for the truth, you have said enough. You are giving away your power, honey, and this is something we want to hold onto with all of our might.

Please let sleeping dogs lie now, and clean the slate by eliminating these toxic people from your life. Who we hang out with *will* reflect on us as you probably know now. Heck, all of us who had an affair were actually hanging with the enemy but our junky minds were too busy getting high off of it. Although subtle in it's effect, all the sordidness of an A reflected onto us as well as back onto them. It will take a while to cleanse ourselves of the affair residue, so this is why NC/LC is so important.

(((Hugs)))

   ~Iddy~ 


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