Good for you! I know it's hard and you will hurt, but you've taken the first step to getting your life back. You can feel good about that... focus on that. You did this for you. My xap was also very respectful in the end and that was nice... no big blow up, just two people realizing that it can't go on like this no matter how we think we feel about each other. So, now the hard work comes in. The self reflection. The devotion to your M. It will all be worth it. Time will heal you if you let it. Hang in there, allow yourself to experience the emotions are you going to feel... and little by little, the fog will lift and you will smile.
Hugs to you for making a huge step in the right direction. If you have reading here and I'm sure you have, you know it won't be easy. I think ending the affair is just the beginning. Congrats to you!
You took the mother of all steps in the A. That's the exit stage right. It’s scary and it hurts but there is a big part of you that knew it was the right thing to do!
It will be a rollercoaster ride of emotionally good and sometimes not so good day but “this” ride has an end and has a purpose. There is a light at the end of the tunnel! Hold on to that belief and the resolve that it will get easier with each passing day.
You said you feel the rayne and that brings to mind a quote from an amazing, strong poster full of wisdom and with a wonderful testament of overcoming named Trixie1313: Life is not about waiting for the storm to pass, it is about learning to dance in the rain.
Much love and big hugs,
E1
Whether you think you can or you think you can’t you are probably right.
Whether you think you can or you think you can't you are probably right. A parrot can repeat what it has learned but the mark of true intelligence is applying what is learned.
So proud of you! Its exactly what i need to do. You will get through it all and your husband will make you happy. You will make yourself happy. WELL DONE!!!! This was the right thing,
Purplerayne-
Good for you! I know it's hard and you will hurt, but you've taken the first step to getting your life back. You can feel good about that... focus on that. You did this for you. My xap was also very respectful in the end and that was nice... no big blow up, just two people realizing that it can't go on like this no matter how we think we feel about each other. So, now the hard work comes in. The self reflection. The devotion to your M. It will all be worth it. Time will heal you if you let it. Hang in there, allow yourself to experience the emotions are you going to feel... and little by little, the fog will lift and you will smile.
Hugs,
NC/LC since January 28, 2010
http://secretlifeofjane.wordpress.com/
NC/LC since January 28, 2010
http://secretlifeofjane.wordpress.com/
PR,
I know this was very hard for you, but sometimes doing the right thing is. You will be going through a gambit of emotions now, so
~Iddy~
Yea yah good for your PR,
You took the mother of all steps in the A. That's the exit stage right. It’s scary and it hurts but there is a big part of you that knew it was the right thing to do!
It will be a rollercoaster ride of emotionally good and sometimes not so good day but “this” ride has an end and has a purpose. There is a light at the end of the tunnel! Hold on to that belief and the resolve that it will get easier with each passing day.
You said you feel the rayne and that brings to mind a quote from an amazing, strong poster full of wisdom and with a wonderful testament of overcoming named Trixie1313: Life is not about waiting for the storm to pass, it is about learning to dance in the rain.
Much love and big hugs,
E1
Whether you think you can or you think you can’t you are probably right.
Whether you think you can or you think you can't you are probably right. A parrot can repeat what it has learned but the mark of true intelligence is applying what is learned.
So proud of you! Its exactly what i need to do. You will get through it all and your husband will make you happy. You will make yourself happy. WELL DONE!!!! This was the right thing,
Much peace & Love,
Rayne
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