jaycee, many posters on EAS have adopted that fake it til you make it motto. One foot in front of the other, just keep walking, one day at a time, this too shall pass. How's that for mottos!
Glad to see you are/have asked those questions. By asking, it helps you see the affair never was a real relationship. He was just drawn to you, hmm? Maybe he was curious and one thing led to another. (I know that all too well) But something led him to you? Do you think he would still be trying if you had not made it easy for him to be led to you? I'm not trying to be mean, just wanting you to think about why you allowed the affair. I think in time and after a lot of soul searching you will come to realize he didn't come back into your life for some profound reason. You both allowed each other into your lives for reasons only you know. Don't dress it up jaycee, be true to yourself and acknowledge all the uglyness, it was an affair. Don't ya think?
It will be tough to avoid him in social settings. But many posters here on EAS have done so. In order to move on and get past the garbage, you do what you have to do - avoid putting yourself in situations where he is. Easy said, but have you checked out some of the Limited Contact threads here on EAS? Hang around and stay here for support.
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I like that... fake it till you make it.
jaycee, many posters on EAS have adopted that fake it til you make it motto. One foot in front of the other, just keep walking, one day at a time, this too shall pass. How's that for mottos!
Glad to see you are/have asked those questions. By asking, it helps you see the affair never was a real relationship. He was just drawn to you, hmm? Maybe he was curious and one thing led to another. (I know that all too well) But something led him to you? Do you think he would still be trying if you had not made it easy for him to be led to you? I'm not trying to be mean, just wanting you to think about why you allowed the affair. I think in time and after a lot of soul searching you will come to realize he didn't come back into your life for some profound reason. You both allowed each other into your lives for reasons only you know. Don't dress it up jaycee, be true to yourself and acknowledge all the uglyness, it was an affair. Don't ya think?
It will be tough to avoid him in social settings. But many posters here on EAS have done so. In order to move on and get past the garbage, you do what you have to do - avoid putting yourself in situations where he is. Easy said, but have you checked out some of the Limited Contact threads here on EAS? Hang around and stay here for support.
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