So he is jobless pothead who's been mean to you because you hurt his pride (what is pride for people like him anyway)? And you were talking about having a baby with him? Why would you even talk to him at all? Of course he's been using you. But remember - you LET him use you.
Exactly it makes no sense. The conversation about having his child occured before I found out what happened. After I found out about the theft I completely left him alone. And all the talk about having his baby was just what we did we filled each others head with dreams and fantasy. Nothing about our relationship was based in reality. I know everything was wrong, disrespectful to my marriage, my husband, and God. I have learned my lesson. I see the A for what it was I see the relationship with my XAP for what it was not. I wasted 6 years of my life holding on to him and not truly appreciating the good man that I have. I hate that this whole situation happened but I am happy that the whole truth is out with my husband and we are working toward rebuilding our marriage.
Sure did, and now there may be dire consequences...STDs, AIDS, pregnancy.
So he is jobless pothead who's been mean to you because you hurt his pride (what is pride for people like him anyway)? And you were talking about having a baby with him? Why would you even talk to him at all?
Of course he's been using you. But remember - you LET him use you.