i know i shouldn't be jealous or envious
Find a Conversation
i know i shouldn't be jealous or envious
| Fri, 10-09-2009 - 10:34am |
i know i shouldn't be jealous or envious of them...but I just can't seem to shake this feeling today. Xap and his new girlf my co worker are heading off on the trip of life time tomorrow for several weeks. They are skipping around the office full of excitiment and hes in and out of her office several times a day. I am not short of holidays myself and thats not what i am envious off. I am just envious of how happy and excited they seem and how in love they seem. Or maybe im jealous of all the attention he lavishes on her I dunno :(
Why cant i just be happy with what Ive got and stop obsessing over how happy and in love he is.

Hi Gal,
Look at it another way, be deliriously happy it is NOT you. Because you know who and what he is. Her turn is coming, her pain is coming. He is a player in how he so quickly moved on. What's there to be jealous of sweetie?
Hold your head up high, be so very proud to be out of that destructive behavior. Pat yourself on the back and wish them Bon Voyage!!
thanks so much for your words of encouragement. In my head i know you are right and try to keep telling myself all of those things. I just wish my dumb heart would listen to my head lol.
hi classy thank so you so much for your adivce. You are bang on the mark there about them being a constant visual reminder. I know i would not be like this if they weren't in my face all day every day. Unfortunately i couldn't get another position due to the nature of my job and financial problems. I got some inside knowledge that XAp is being let go next month due to staff cutbacks. My boss works on a last in first out system and I am there