I let him get me MAD!!!

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Registered: 09-15-2006
I let him get me MAD!!!
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Sat, 08-29-2009 - 10:24am

I accidentally posted this in the single OW/OM section.

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Registered: 07-11-2009
Sat, 08-29-2009 - 11:45am

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              &n

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Registered: 02-05-2009
Sun, 08-30-2009 - 12:16pm

Hi sweetie, (((HTGB))) deep breath now :)

You're not out of your A long enough to be indifferent so it's normal that your xAP's stupid remarks get you going. Their callousness can be so maddening and frustrating - of course he's going to say things like this to get your goat. And honestly, this guy needs to grow up and start acting like a professional.

The thing you need to remember is that you are BETTER than him and not to let his comments get a reaction out of you. A reaction is what he is looking for, even a negative one and you just gave him a huge payoff. For these people even negative attention is better than nothing.

And boy does this dude ever deserve your 'NOTHING', lol. Keep that in mind next time he tries his immature little tricks to get your reaction.

big hugs! hang in there,

trixie xo



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Registered: 09-15-2006
Mon, 08-31-2009 - 10:14pm

Dancer and Trixie,


Thanks for your responses.

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Registered: 07-11-2009
Tue, 09-01-2009 - 10:04am

If you have to be in this meeting do your best to steer clear of him or any one-on-one time.

 

              &n