I miss my Husband!!

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-31-2011
I miss my Husband!!
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Thu, 02-10-2011 - 5:39pm

For the first time in many months, I actually miss him!

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-25-2010
Thu, 02-10-2011 - 7:09pm

While I'm not M, or ever have been, but I wonder - why not text him, or call him? Re-intiate that kind of contact and then maybe he'll reciprocate? It's possible that he stopped doing those things as he had picked up, however subtle, that you were 'annoyed' or he didn't feel as though you enjoyed the texts, etc. Maybe he misses you as well, and would be happy to receive a text or call?

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'It may be that when we no longer know what to do,
We have come to our real work,
And that when we no longer know which way to go,
We have begun our real journey'
- Wendell Berry

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Registered: 01-31-2011
Fri, 02-11-2011 - 12:27pm
I have ;) - and he did comment once a few months back that I hadn't been texting him during the day in a while.....so, even though I thought was doing my best to keep H in the dark, I WAS pulling away and wasn't even conscious of it.

Oh, the lies we tell ourselves....